Why You Should Date a BHM if You’re a BBW in Australia

Why You Should Date a BHM if You’re a BBW in Australia

Part of living in Australia—or any industrialized country where good quality, clean food is plentiful—is living with the fact that it’s easy to accumulate a few extra pounds here and there as the years wear on. And you know what? That’s okay! Not everyone has to be the size of a rail to be beautiful, in spite of what the media may lead you to believe. More and more people nowadays are joining the ranks of Big Handsome Men and Big Beautiful Women in Australia; yet in spite of this, there is still unfortunately a stigma attached to being plus size.

You might find that dating is difficult when so many men’s expectations are polluted by the unrealistic images that they see in movies, TV shows, and other more unsavory kinds of media. Some men may even be outright dismissive of women who are over a certain arbitrary weight, and this can make online dating particularly tough if you’re the kind of person who likes to be honest about her body in her profile.

What is a Big Beautiful woman to do? Well, why not give some BHM a try? Big Handsome Men are essentially the male counterparts of sexy plus size women, and there are quite a few advantages to choosing this demographic over other kinds of men. Let’s take a look:

(1) He understands what it’s like.

Even if you’re perfectly healthy, you’ve likely had to endure a barrage of comments and unsolicited advice from your “fit” friends and family, and have had to endure near invisibility in the media for simply having a certain body shape. Though of course men probably don’t have it as bad as women when it comes to the stigma—even today, women are constantly judged for their looks—but he knows what it’s like to have people look down on him for his size, and he knows what it’s like to have a difficult dating situation because of it.

(2) He won’t try to change you.

If he accepts himself as he is, then he’s likely to accept you as you are as well. The fact that he’s willing to put himself out there and date means that he’s not ashamed of himself, and that he sees the appeal in having a larger, fuller body. We often like on others what we have on ourselves, and chances are he will be happy to have a woman whose ribs can’t be played like a xylophone.

(3) He’s sexy.

If being a plus size, Big Beautiful Woman is sexy, then of course a Big Handsome Man would be just as attractive. BHM are often strong and muscular, even if it’s not always apparent under their more fluffy layers, so you know that he won’t be a wimp or a weakling, like smaller men sometimes are. Not everyone’s into the BHM aesthetic of course, but there is certainly a lot to love if you find yourself attracted.

Even as a BBW, it may have never occurred to you to try dating men of larger proportions, so hopefully this article has inspired you to take the leap. Don’t pressure yourself too much, of course; start slow, perhaps by signing up to a Australian BBW dating site, and see where it goes from there.

Also read:

Big Beautiful Women Dating And Big Beautiful Women Marriages

How to Build a Good BBW Dating Profile? 

Where Can I Find a Big Beautiful Woman? 


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